I am a wife, a mother of three, and lovingly known as “Auntie Ames.” My life’s work has been shaped by both professional calling and personal devotion—rooted in faith, anchored in family, and guided by a deep desire to love and serve others well.

As an attorney, published author, speaker, and legal consultant, I bring decades of experience in child advocacy, local and international mission work, and program development. My work is not theoretical—it has been lived, built, and refined on the frontlines of service for over two decades, where the Lord has faithfully formed in me the heart of a protector—one who seeks to defend and care for the most vulnerable - single mothers and children. “Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves… defend the rights of the poor and needy.” (Proverbs 31:8–9). Regardless of her age, her season of life (pregnancy, postpartum, full nest, empty nest), or the number of children who call her “mama,” she matters and her legacy matters.

At the center of my calling is a deep and personal conviction to walk alongside single mothers—of every age and season—so they feel seen, valued, loved, and protected. This calling is rooted in my own story. I was raised by a single mother, and with each passing year, I better understand the strength, sacrifice, and quiet courage she carried. What once felt ordinary, I now recognize as extraordinary. She was, in every sense, a warrior. Because of her, I am compelled to create spaces where women are not only supported, but truly honored—where their stories are held with dignity and their worth is never in question. “The Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble.” (Psalm 9:9)

At heart, I am also a creator of spaces of grace—places where women feel safe, seen, and supported as they step into healing and growth. Whether through sweet tea, a homemade cake, a homemade meal delivered after a hard day, a softly lit candle, writing, storytelling, or simple hospitality, I believe environment truly matters. There is a sacredness in tending both the soul and the space it rests in.

Some of my greatest joy is found in quiet, meaningful moments—resting on my great-grandmother’s front porch swing, listening to birds sing, and watching flowers bloom. I love writing, gathering with family and dear friends, needlepointing, and the simple beauty of a well-set table or a shared celebration with champagne. And truthfully, I have always been someone who would rather sit at the children’s table—drawn to simplicity, honesty, and the kind of joy that doesn’t need to impress. “He makes everything beautiful in its time.” (Ecclesiastes 3:11)

These rhythms of beauty, rest, and connection are not separate from my work—they are foundational to it. They shape how I lead, how I serve, and how I come alongside others in their journey—offering not just guidance, but a place to belong at the table.